Hey there! It's Tabitha here. I'm just a regular person, like you. The kind of person who messes up, forgets stuff, and sometimes just plain old falls short. But guess what? I still love you, and I sure as heck still love myself too.
Lately, I've noticed this trend—whether it's on social media or in real life—where people are quick to judge. A single picture or comment gets taken out of context, and suddenly, there's this wave of negativity. It happens everywhere, from online arguments to misunderstandings in friendships. People forget that we're all human, and humans aren't perfect. We trip, we fall, and sometimes we really screw up. That's okay. I still love you, and I still love me.
Take friendships, for example. How often do we jump to conclusions without giving the other person a chance to explain themselves? We all want to be understood based on our intentions, not our actions, right? So why aren't we extending the same grace to others? Instead of focusing on the momentary lapse, why not take a step back and try to understand where they're coming from? After all, we're all flawed, and we all deserve compassion.
And then there are the relationships between mothers and daughters. Oh man, I’ve seen this play out so many times. Years of resentment build up, and the hurt festers. As a mom, I get it—it’s hard. My kids are still little, but I already know there will be plenty of times when I’ll mess up. Sometimes big time. And that's okay. Because we’re human. We cry, we lose our tempers, and we definitely don’t always get it right. But that doesn’t mean our hearts stop loving. Our connections run deeper than the occasional mistake.
In marriage too, I’ve learned the hard way that it’s easy to neglect the relationship with your spouse when life gets busy. Chris isn’t perfect, and neither am I. Life happens—kids, bills, work, stress—and sometimes we forget that our actions affect the person we promised to cherish forever. I’ve had my share of bad days as a wife, but I still love him, and I still love me.
Then there’s the online world. It’s so easy to compare yourself to others when you see their highlight reels. But here’s the thing: no one is living a perfect life, no matter how it looks online. Comparing yourself to someone else’s curated version of reality is a losing battle. Instead of chasing perfection, focus on being the best version of yourself. Love who you are, flaws and all. Because you, my friend, are amazing just the way you are.
Behind every face, every persona, every title—mom, wife, daughter, friend—is a person. A real, breathing, feeling human being. And that person deserves to be seen, heard, and loved. Behind "Tabitha" is me—a mom who tries her best but occasionally caves and orders fast food, someone who forgets birthdays and loses track of time, and yes, someone who cries when she’s tired. But none of that diminishes the love I have for myself or for others. It just reminds me to look beyond the surface and see the incredible, vibrant soul that lies beneath.
Life gets busy, and we sometimes forget to slow down and connect. We forget to truly listen, to speak encouragement, and to show love. But you have something special inside of you. Your unique gifts, talents, and passions are meant to shine and make a difference in the world. Don’t let fear or doubt hold you back from pursuing your dreams. What makes your heart soar? Make time for it. And while you’re at it, start loving yourself a little more.
Be bold. Be brave. Be you. And remember, I love you, and I love me too.
xoxo
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